Is it normal to feel like my wedding is going to be a disaster?
Sometimes, I feel like things are not going to come together. Everything is not going to match, and I am going to hate it. I just wish that I was a millionaire, and could pay someone lots of money to just do my wedding planning for me.. And all I had to do was show up in my dress.
About Me
- Kristen
- I have been married to my best friend and most handsome man I've ever seen since October 11, 2008. We are the proud parents to Millie, the best dog in the world & Max, the most curious cat there is!
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now, i've never planned a wedding, but it's my feeling that yes, it is normal to feel this way. i mean, so many people are going to be coming and it's just a big deal, or so everyone says. just remember, it's the day you marry the man you love. and in 5 years, all that will matter is when you stood up infront of all those people and professed your love to david.
and ps-i think everything is going to match. i think that your dress is so beautiful (not to mention how beautiful you are going to look in it), the bridesmaid dresses are so hott (not to mention how hot we are going to look in them!), and as soon as you find the perfect flowers, everything is going to pull together perfectly!
you are so great at planning things and this is no different!! :)
love you friend!!!
Kristen- Remember that it is not the WEDDING but the celebration that matters. Everything could be matching and coordinated and timed out perfectly and be the most somber, dreadful event. The wedding is one day, the actual marriage event is a lifetime. I pray that you get caught up in the excitement of the marriage and not the anxiety and pressure of putting on a good show for others. If you two are perfect for one another, than it- the day, the celebration- will be perfect.
hey Kristen-
I typed this big reply, and it got hung up and erased...so, I'll try again. First, I agree with your other friends- the wedding is not the most important thing. It's only the beginning. So, in the grand scheme of things, even if there's something not quite perfect (and there will be something!) in the end, you'll still be married. But really, the stress of getting it all together is so overwhelming. It really will be fine. As long as you're focusing on the marriage, and the wedding as the start of that, the little things that come along won't be such a big deal. I promise. Take that from an ex-wedding coordinator/perfectionist. It will all be wonderful.
Lynette
I agree with all the above comments. Besides, you have put so much thought and planning into all of this, and it sounds like it is going to be just FABULOUS!! The most important part is that you guys are entering into a time of worship to honor God by joining your lives together. He will be glorified, so everything will be beautiful.
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